Certainly not. It never works well. Then they hear some advice from their buddies that you have to be an asshole with women — and women also back-off from this behavior.
I beg you, forget it. Throw that thought out of your beta-brain and start thinking logically. Who wants to play charade??
You want to understand who is standing in front of you. Less makeup, less artificial behavior — more realness. Why think women are any different in this? Women are just like us on many things. Exactly like how your behavior is different with the boss, compared to hanging with your friends. When you alter her status in your mind for better or worse , you create fertile ground for special treatment.
Women feel and hate it, justifiably, for reasons I will touch later on. Most men would say that. And yet we always see men who put women on an imaginary podium and give them affection, support, love and resources. Men turn women into goddesses while they actually wait for a man to take away this boring status.
They are not special. They eat, sleep, piss, shit and sweat. I know you know this. But the trick is to remember those things real-time. Armed with this knowledge, you realize women suddenly become much more earthly, simple and accessible than before. This is the starting point from which, in my opinion, you should perceive communication with women. Now that we have agreed that women are, first of all, human beings — we will begin to treat them as such: Have you ever considered being extra nice or extra asshole to your friend to get something out of him?
